I know that the Expectation Operator $E\{x\}$ four discrete values is $$ \sum_k \alpha Pr(x = \alpha_k)$$
and its very intuitive when speaking out a formula which contains the Expectation Operator. But I often have some troubles when trying to apply it on real examples with numbers.
E.g. the autocorrelation is completely obvious when given as sum like: $$ r_x(\tau)=\sum_n x_n x_{n-\tau}.$$ However, often principles like autocorrelation, correlation, cross-correlation etc. are formulated with the $E$ Operator. For the autocorrelation: $$ r_x(k,l) = E\{x(k)x^*(l)\}.$$ I assume this can be written as: $$ r_x(\tau) = E\{x(k)x^*(k-\tau)\}.$$
The product is the same as in the sum above. However, the $E$ Operator implies that I need to know some probabilities. How can one quickly see that this is the same as above with $\alpha$ is somehow $x_n x_{n-\tau}$ and $Pr=1$? This can't always be the case. Otherwise one could always write the sum instead of the E Operator, couldn't he?
I think about the E Operator as if it is needed for different random processes. This would imply that I can't formulate e.g. a cross-correlation as a sum over all products between two signals, as I used to do. A formula like $r_{xy}(k,l)=E\{x(k)y^*(l)\}$ would then be a more general case and could not be applied on a simple numerical example, without making assumptions about the processes statistical properties.