From text books we know that the DTFT of $u[n]$ is given by
$$U(\omega)=\pi\delta(\omega)+\frac{1}{1-e^{-j\omega}},\qquad -\pi\le\omega <\pi\tag{1}$$
However, I haven't seen a DSP textbook that at least pretends to give a more or less sound derivation of $(1)$.
Proakis [1] derives the right half of the right-hand side of $(1)$ by setting $z=e^{j\omega}$ in the $\mathcal{Z}$-transform of $u[n]$, and says that it is valid except for $\omega=2\pi k$ (which is of course correct). He then states that at the pole of the $\mathcal{Z}$-transform we have to add a delta impulse with an area of $\pi$, but that appears more like a recipe to me than anything else.
Oppenheim and Schafer [2] mention in this context
Although it is not completely straightforward to show, this sequence can be represented by the following Fourier transform:
which is followed by a formula equivalent to $(1)$. Unfortunately, they didn't take the trouble to show us that "not completely straightforward" proof.
A book that I actually didn't know, but which I found when looking for a proof of $(1)$ is Introduction to Digital Signal Processing and Filter Design by B.A. Shenoi. On page 138 there's a "derivation" of $(1)$, but unfortunately it is wrong. I asked a "DSP-puzzle" question to have people show what is wrong with that proof.]
So my question is:
Can anybody provide a proof/derivation of $(1)$ that is sound or even rigorous while being accessible for mathematically inclined engineers? It doesn't matter if it's just copied from a book. I think it would be good to have it on this site anyway.
Note that even on math.SE almost nothing relevant is to be found: this question has no answers, and that one has two answers, one of which is wrong (identical to Shenoi's argument), and the other one uses the "accumulation property", which I would be happy with, but then one needs to proof that property, which puts you back to the start (because both proofs basically prove the same thing).
As a final note, I did come up with something like a proof (well, I'm an engineer), and I will also post it as an answer some days from now, but I would be happy to collect other published or unpublished proofs that are simple and elegant, and, most importantly, that are accessible for DSP engineers.
PS: I do not doubt the validity of $(1)$, I would just like to see one or several relatively straightforward proofs.
[1] Proakis, J.G. and D.G. Manolakis, Digital Signal Processing: Principles, Algorithms, and Applications, 3rd edition, Section 4.2.8
[2] Oppenheim, A.V. and R.W. Schafer, Discrete-Time Signal Processing, 2nd edition, p. 54.
Inspired by a comment by Marcus Müller, I'd like to show that $U(\omega)$ as given by Eq. $(1)$ satisfies the requirement
$$u[n]=u^2[n]\rightarrow U(\omega)=\frac{1}{2\pi}(U\star U)(\omega)$$
If $U(\omega)$ is the DTFT of $u[n]$, then
$$V(\omega)=\frac{1}{1-e^{-j\omega}}$$
must be the DTFT of
$$v[n]=\frac12\text{sign}[n]$$
(where we define $\text{sign}[0]=1$), because
$$V(\omega)=U(\omega)-\pi\delta(\omega)\Longleftrightarrow u[n]-\frac12=\frac12\text{sign}[n]$$
So we have
$$\frac{1}{2\pi}(V\star V)(\omega)\Longleftrightarrow \left(\frac12\text{sign}[n]\right)^2=\frac14$$
from which it follows that
$$\frac{1}{2\pi}(V\star V)(\omega)=\text{DTFT}\left\{\frac14\right\}=\frac{\pi}{2}\delta(\omega)$$
With this we get
$$\begin{align}\frac{1}{2\pi}(U\star U)(\omega)&=\frac{1}{2\pi}\left[(\pi\delta(\omega)+V(\omega))\star (\pi\delta(\omega)+V(\omega))\right]\\&=\frac{1}{2\pi}\left[\pi^2\delta(\omega)+2\pi V(\omega)+(V\star V)(\omega)\right]\\&=\frac{\pi}{2}\delta(\omega)+V(\omega)+\frac{\pi}{2}\delta(\omega)\\&=U(\omega)\qquad\text{q.e.d.}\end{align}$$