Question: Which parameter is suitable to indicate how "good" the measurement fits to the Kalman filter?
To estimate a quality of association you can use likelihood function. The likelihood considers not only residual but also uncertainty and represented as scalar value:
$$\mathcal{L} = \frac{1}{\sqrt{2\pi S}}\exp [-\frac{1}{2}\mathbf y^\mathsf T\mathbf S^{-1}\mathbf y]$$
Problem: For an object tracking scenario with multiple objects and multiple tracks, I want to choose the "best" assignment object<->track.
AsThe question which you are interested is called data association and as was said there are a lot of solution and this question is too broad. Here are some of methods (you can google it and find more information):
- Global nearest neighbour (in Euclidean space);
- Global strongest neighbour;
- Joint probability data association;
- Multiple hypothesis tracking (the best choice).